With all of the stresses going on these days, my trip to England can’t come fast enough. I desperately need a vacation, and if I’m honest, I need to see my family over there. It’s a funny dynamic. Living so far away, and with my mom being gone, I often feel isolated from my family. I go on Facebook and I see some of my cousins experiencing life with their moms, and I feel a bit envious. It’s hard not to, especially since my mom and her sister were so alike, and I know I would have a lot of the same experiences as them if she were still alive. In some ways, I feel isolated, but on the other hand, being around that also makes me feel comforted. They know a part of me that almost nobody else does. I’m excited to introduce my kids to my family again (they were very young last time) and to show them a country half way across the world.
We have about 7 days to experience as much as possible, while getting as much fun and relaxation as we can too. I have always been of the mindset that travel is exciting and exhilarating, but it should also have time to relax and enjoy it as well. For me, it’s about the people, and I know the kids are super excited about seeing my cousins’s kids as well. That being said, England is rich with history, and how often do you get to go visit a real castle in the US? Not too often. My husband has always been a lover of old places, old architecture, and interesting spaces. He loves roaming old graveyards, looking at the stones of people who lived and died about 200 years ago or more. He loves the gothic stone churches, the little villages and the pieces of history.
Unfortunately, with us going near winter, some of the houses/castles I was hoping to take them to are closed. I had REALLY wanted to make the trek to Highclere castle, where they filmed Downton Abbey but it’s closed to the public while they film the movie. For now we are looking into Chatsworth, which they decorate for Christmas about the time we are traveling. I’m still looking into other interesting places in the East Midlands. If you know of any, please let me know. With the long travel time and the need to get around to visit people, I need to stay somewhat local (can you believe I have never really been to London aside from a flight layover where we got stuck?) London is on my bucket list, but I don’t think we’ll make it this time.
Some day, I hope to take the kids over for Christmas.
For now, I just want to make their trip as magical as possible.