So in my last post, I went over why good deeds sometimes go punished. Well, since that post there have been some developments.
What I am going to say, I will refer to as “allegedly”. Everything about this post from here on out, should be construed as “allegedly”. Got it? Gotta cover your bases and your ass, you know?
So about a week and a half ago, I get a call from someone who has been involved with he situation from the beginning. One of the silent few who were helpers from the get go without any public recognition. They tell me the “off” woman (from here on I’ll call her Ann) had checked the ill woman (I’ll refer to her as Sue) out of the hospital promising 24 hour care, stayed a day, and left. Poor Sue was home, unable to access her antibiotics, and got an infection which caused all sorts of issues. Another woman, who had been by Sue’s side since the very first few days of hospitalization, but who had been ill herself and not around for a week or so, showed up to find poor Sue in a bad way. Sue ends up back in hospital. Next thing you know, an investigation by the state is in process, police are being called by all sides, and wars are waged on Facebook. It’s a big ol’ mess, y’all.
In the middle of hearing how tragic and awful all of this got, I went to visit Sue. She apologized profusely to me for believing things Ann had said about me and accused me of. I felt a little bad, too. Yes, she can be a bit difficult, and yes, she may not always understand how to deal with people, but Sue was nice. She is who she is, I respect that good and bad, and I wish her well. We had a frank discussion about things, and I left feeling better for going. I think we both felt better for having met.
Sue ended up posting a rant about what Ann had done on FB (there’s a lot involved but I am not going to go into it here). Ann responded by attacking Sue and having all of her friends, including a guy, attack Sue and call her all sorts of names. People who have no inside knowledge of what happened are attacking Sue. People are blindly defending Ann. The cat turds were nothing compared to the shitstorm this all turned into. Honestly, I’d clean cat turds every single day over dealing with the people side of this bullshit.
With all the investigations, both state, police etc, I am leaving the situation be unless needed. I trust that people will do their jobs and me commenting isn’t going to help. That’s a tough pill to swallow, because I hate injustice, but I trust they will sort it all and get to the bottom of things. Frankly, I am queen of the screenshot because I have learned people are not always what they seem, so I have proof of who people are.
Sue is doing a lot better than she was when she went to hospital the second time, and is getting cared for.
I am left so sad and frustrated though that all these people bound together to do kindness and now the end result is so ugly. The world we live in often feels cold and hopeless. Kindness could make all the difference. I often wonder what the world would be like if we all started getting involved in being kind to people. The hardest part is keeping things like this from stopping me helping people in the future. It won’t though. I have kids to raise and I have to show them that kindness is important, even if it doesn’t work out the way you hope.